Elisabeth “Sisi,” Empress of Austria
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Unattainable body standards are nothing new. In the 1800s,
way before Lindsay Lohan and Mary Kate ever graced the public with their teeny
frames, there was Elizabeth, the Empress of Austria.
Elisabeth, or Sisi, as she was known, is said to have had an
obsession with a 19-inch waist. I can’t help but think of the scene in Gone With the Wind, where Scarlett
instructs Mamie to tighten her corset to 18 inches.
Scarlett had nothing on
Sisi, who maintained her 110 lb frame even after 4 pregnancies. She would fast,
exercise and tighten her corset until she couldn’t breathe.
That was only the tip of the iceberg. She suffered
stress-related symptoms from the anxiety of being constantly in the spotlight
as Empress. Royal life didn’t agree with her. She was a free spirit. The
freedom she was used to was replaced by rigid rules and expectations. She
started to exhibit health problems. She had fits of coughing and anxiety.
Sisi was a shy, quiet girl; not at all, the perfect
candidate for royalty, it would seem. She grew up in an eccentric home. Her
father loved circuses and eschewed duty. Sisi’s unstructured childhood allowed
her to roam about, frequently missing her classes. This freedom didn’t prepare
her for the stifling demands of being an Empress.
Her husband, Francis Joseph had originally been intended to
marry her dowdy sister Helene. But upon their meeting, he fell in love with Sisi.
He declared if he couldn’t have Sisi, he wouldn’t marry at all.
Francis’s mother, Archduchess Sophie, turned out to be the sort of mother-in-law all new brides dread. She
was overbearing and obnoxious. When Elisabeth had her first child, a girl, not
the male heir everyone wanted, the new mother was made to feel like a huge disappointment in the household. Sophie called her
a “silly young mother.” In fact, Sophie snatched the baby from the new mother
right after birth, refusing to allow Elisabeth to feed her, and named the
newborn, Sophie, after herself.
If this wasn’t enough to drive anyone mad, one day Elisabeth found a
pamphlet on her desk with the following underlined.
...The natural destiny of a Queen is to give an heir to the throne.
If the Queen is so fortunate as to provide the State with a Crown-Prince this should
be the end of her ambition - she should by no means meddle with the government
of an Empire, the care of which is not a task for women... If the Queen bears
no sons, she is merely a foreigner in the State, and a very dangerous
foreigner, too. For as she can never hope to be looked on kindly here, and must
always expect to be sent back whence she came, so will she always seek to win
the King by other than natural means; she will struggle for position and power
by intrigue and the sowing of discord, to the mischief of the King, the nation,
and the Empire…
Three guesses who this was from. Talk
about toxic!
Sophie opposed Elisabeth’s slimming tactics. But only because she
thought the Empress should always look pregnant.
Elisabeth found solace in, and fell in love with the country of Hungary. She would find
respite from her anxieties by taking frequent trips there. Interestingly
enough, all of the physical effects of her stress disappeared when she was
there. She was relaxed and didn’t have to worry about her toxic family.
c. 2011
Very interesting! Too bad, though, that toxic family members have been in existence for that long...
ReplyDeletei had never heard of her before, but once i did, i had to post about her. unfortunately, i think toxic family members are around to stay. ;)....b
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